Part of this argument is based on whether there is a surplus or a deficit of physicians in the area.
If there is a surplus, the patients bounce around and doctor shop. If there is a deficit, they stick and the doctor can be more selective, firing patients who are not nice.
I work in an underserved area. I know I spend more time with patients and parents than most of the other physicians in the area.
When we have a patient ask for medical records, sometimes I am sad because I thought we had a good working relationship. Sometimes I am glad because the demanding ones are more likely to leave.
I do have one consolation, I know they will not get the same level of service from the other offices they get from ours. Call it egotistical. I know we are more friendly, flexible, and spend more time with patients. If I am wrong, at least I am happily deluded, but I am comfortable that I am not.
I rarely take a patient back who has left. Occasionally for the few insurances I do not take, but that is not common.
We rarely fire patients. We probably should fire more than we do. Many of our parents are rude and I think this is their basic personality. Most of them soften up over time but some don't.
Again, we are in a shortage area, so while they can find another doc, they will have to travel a good distance for inferior care. Ultimately there are more patients out there to replace them so we are not hurting for patients. Now only if they were not predominately medicaid.....
Wendell Pediatrician in Chicago
The patient's expectation is that you have all the answers, sometimes they just don't like the answer you have for them