I just found time, embarrassingly enough, to read the beginning of this thread. And I'm trying to watch my English/grammer/and punctuation, and syntax. (bad joke, possibly)
But, anyways, my deepest condolences. I was terrified to read about your accident and what you have gone through. It makes my past year of suffering from UC seem like nothing. All I wanted to do was get back on my bike with my dog. I'm not a doctor - IT also - but I'm crossing my fingers that you can enjoy biking again, with the grace of doctors, medicine, or any other miracle.
Just as others have said, I admire your spirit and attitude through it all, and I wish you the best as you continue recovering.