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I need remote access, because I do a lot of charting at home (I am STRONGLY discouraged from staying after office hours to do records.)

SBS sets this up for you. Just open port 443 and run the wizard. I like to use a URL shortner in conjunction with the free website. So instead of typing https://sluthra.remotewebacess.com, I just type bit.ly/sluthra in my address bar. You will have access to all of the computers on the network. It's recommended that you don't work directly on the server.