As far as I know, you can't. This is a big deal with me too. The only thing I know to tell you is to pull all the messages you sent to her back into your box and then redistribute them from there.

Leslie
Hospital Employed Physician Who Misses The Old AC

"It's a good thing for a doctor to have prematurely grey hair and itching piles. It makes him appear to know more than he does and gives him an expression of concern which the patient interprets as being on his behalf. "