I remember playing boys's club football. I remember when I intially was one of the ones sitting on the bench. Now, it changed when I was moved from offensive line to defensive line (that's turned out to be my shining spot) but yes, I do remember everyone got a chance to play. Even in close games. And you'd better get dirty...shows you were trying hard (i guess). But we didn't all get awards. I remember that fact pushing me to strive to improve. This was especially true in my Junior Duckpin Bowling League. I remember how good it felt, and how good other felt, when we/they improved and all of a sudden your name was listed as "2nd High Strikes". When everyone gets an award just for showing, it really takes away from those who attempt/succeed in excelling, and seems to lower the motivation for those who are not. This can then move over into other parts of life.
