Best of luck. Sometimes that is what is required.
My ex and I managed to do it with a less traumatic process -- "mediation".
It was amusing (after the fact) that we each had a "mediator" and each had our own attorney.
Our mediators got into a huge fight, and ultimately we (my ex-and I) had to come together to mediate the mediators so we could get the thing over with.
Although not married, we remain very cordial.
