Guys,
Thanks so much for your thoughts and concerns... I've been so very upset and hurt, not just for me but as I said above, for my kids....
D-Day is tomorrow (Today at this point) and I nearly don't give a darn. It's my third D-Day of this nearly dead relationship. We in the Affair Recovery Support Circles call the day you discover your cheating spouse's affair your "D-Day"; discovery day. It's a day you'll Never, Ever Forget as you get a punch to the groin and your heart and soul torn out and served to you raw, bloody and in some form of Fib on a silver platter... It frequently inflicts a kind of trauma that meets the criteria of PTSD which is what happened to me... She already gave two of the affair cheating ones... The facts are the facts.
If any of you out there know of or need recovery support of such sort yourselves please Google Beyond Affairs Network and find yourself a local chapter in your community.
http://beyondaffairsnetwork.com/ban-program/Have a good night and wish me luck,
Paul
