Thanks, David, for your story.
I don't recall having that depth of insight at age 10. I do recall times of anguish for not reaching out when I felt I should do so, yet confused as how to best do so.
The times I have summoned the courage, or been able to do so anonymously, carry a great warmth of remembrance.
Best wishes, and Merry Christmas, and best of all, Happy Birthday Boss!