Steve,
If you are really frustrated, and none of the ideas above work, and you REALLY want to solve the problem, then PM me, and I will give you an extremely good tip. It's not that I don't want to share it here, because it isn't really helpful to anyone.
I have recommended this to at least 15 users on here, and no one to my knowledge has ever taken my advice. I can almost guarantee you, you will get your answer.
