When I read the vaccine notification requirement law in NYS, I said to myself "Every single pediatrician should stop providing vaccines for children." Its an ornery requirement for physicians.
Sometimes people have to take responsibility for themselves and their family. Maybe the doctor should give you a "vaccination record card" with the vaccine information on it. Then you keep it and update it. This gives you a duplicate of the info in the chart. But no one seems to want to take responsibilty for their own business these days.